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[temper force with grace;the strong and weak mutually assist each other] 剛烈與柔順相互彌補(bǔ),柔硬兼施,恩威并用
凡為將者,當(dāng)以剛?cè)嵯酀?jì),不可徒恃其勇?!?/span>羅貫中《三國演義》
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